The common wisdom after is a break-up is that life should go on!
You must be tired of hearing these hackneyed words like,
"Life goes on"
"Move on"
"There are better fishes out there in the sea"
"You deserve better"
"He or she din't deserve you"
"How long are you going to cling to your past"
Yada Yada Yada
Did anyone ever gave an advice to properly make up with your Ex?
Most probably not. After all Life should go on, and your ex has already moved on?
But, most likely your friend have also went through a similar break up, and she herself has not gotten over it. Even if she moved on. There was a reason you were in love with your Ex. Break-ups usually happen over Minor differences, and making Mountains out of molehills. He never does the dishes, he is always busy at work, "he forgot my mother's birthday?", and these trifle things add up. And when you are in a fight, you add up everything and fight each other using all this small gunpowder to create canons balls of verbal abuse.
You forget all the reasons you had to love each other. If you can sort out these small issues, and learn to live with and accept your differences, Life would be so much smoother.
And there are lots of other small things that leads to a break up.
I was surprised how easy it was to make up with my ex, after reading this advice on How to get your ex Back. These are all small things that will give you that "Aha" moments where you realize, how come I never though of this?
The Magic of Making up is full of practical advice to get Back your ex. How to first get yourself ready for the change, and then plot the process of making up.
Breaking up is like burning bridges, and it takes some effort to rebuild the Bridge.
Some would say, why rebuild the bridge, when you can find new Fish?
Unless you rebuild the bridge and learn how to make a relationship work, it is always going to be the same all over again. Both of you were at fault, however much you blame your ex, or Blame yourself for that matter.
You need to first work out why things went wrong, and then work towards making those work again. You are never going to be able to change someone else. But you sure can change yourself. True and happy relationships is build upon several small adjustments. After all we are all Human with our own little follies.
I am not much of an Expert on the subject of break ups, but this people sure know their stuff when it comes to making up. Check out this site on the Magic of Making Up. And have a happy Life!
PS: He has helped more than 50000 people to get back their Ex. I am one of those lucky people.
